I'm Jay. That's my wife, Anastasia. It was a chilly September evening in 2015 when our paths first crossed at Pla├ža Reial in Barcelona.

She's my special lady. We've been through hell together. And we love each other unconditionally.

I'm telling you this not to brag about having my shit together. On the contrary.

I'm telling you this because it didn't used to be this way. Not too long ago I was the frustrated, lonely, CLUELESS guy, trying to get women to see me as a romantic partner. Sex happened now and then, but only as a result of luck and happenstance. With women I didn't really find all that attractive.

Now I can walk into any major metropolitan area and find a hot, interesting, smart lady within a few hours, and we'll have a great time together. Sometimes naked, sometimes less naked.

I don't mean any random pickup at a nightclub either. I'm talking instant connection, resonating on a deeper level, with a woman who GETS me.

It's been a rough road getting to this point though. It's taken me endless hours of meditation, travelling to really sketchy places and working with some incredible (and some incredibly bad) coaches.

You can have all of this too. I want you to be able to CONNECT with your dream girl effortlessly. That's what Enigmatic Man is about. We want to help you become the best version of yourself so you can spend time with the best people out there.