I'm Jay. That's my wife, Anastasia. She walked into my life 6 years ago on Pla├ža Reial in Barcelona.

She's my special lady. We've been through hell together. And we love each other unconditionally.

I'm telling you this not to brag about having my shit together. On the contrary.

I'm telling you this because it didn't used to be this way. Not too long ago I was the frustrated, lonely, CLUELESS guy, trying to get women to see me as a romantic partner. On the rare occasion I got lucky and had sex with a girl, but only if she kind of stumbled into my lap. It was never my choice, and I could never get the women I chose.

Now I can walk into any major metropolitan area and find a hot, interesting, smart lady within a few hours, and we'll have a great time together. Sometimes naked, sometimes less naked. I don't mean any random pickup at a club either. I'm talking instant connection, resonating on a deeper level, with a woman who GETS me. Women experience that extremely rarely if ever, that's why it's such a special occasion for both of us.

It's been a rough road getting to this point though. It's taken me endless hours of meditation, travelling to really sketchy places and working with some incredible (and some incredibly bad) coaches.

You can have all of this too. I want you to be able to CONNECT with your dream girl effortlessly. And I want your road to be a lot easier than mine was.

That's what Enigmatic Man is about. Welcome.